Strict But Successful
Single? Struggling? Sick of dating?
Dating doesn't have to be a quiet desperate struggle.
No more time-wasters, narcissistic players, and Tinder fails.
You can get engaged in a year or less with my strict but successful dating plan.
Dating is more fun when you let men chase you.
With my coaching, you will learn how to:
Married Life Is the Best Life
"Marry a man who loves you more than you love him."
Did you find The Rules because the man you wanted to marry didn't propose?
Burned by bad dating advice and tired of making silly mistakes with men?If you are serious about being a success story, Call Kim Not Him!
Dating Coach. Strategy Queen. Original Rules Girl.
Helping women get proposals in a year or less
Hi, I'm Kim Evazians--happily married, world traveler, and former physics teacher known as “The Strict But Successful Coach” with a reputation for results.
I've worked heart and soul for it. I've applied trusted and true principles that have stood the test of time. I don't always tell my clients what they want to hear. Rather, I listen carefully and coach them on how to get a proposal.
My motto is, "Marry a man who loves you more than you love him." Sound too good to be true? Believe it. I'm living proof. So are clients who worked with me and got the ring!
If you're serious about getting that all-important proposal, I look forward to working with you!
Some people learn by the book. Some learn from role models, mentoring and personal experience.
My Rules Story
I am an American Vietnamese. Born and raised to be a Rules Girl from the cradle. Most of the women in my family got married in their early 20's without The Rules Book. My mother married at 17 and my grandmother at 21. Like them, I learned The Rules organically, not just by the book.Met my husband while still in college and we've been together for about 2 decades. I also went to a very traditional and private college where most girls get engaged by Graduation Day.
Became a Certified Rules Coach after 6 years of being happily married because I believe that "Married life is the best life."
If you want unsurpassed results, work with an Original Rules Girl taught from the cradle. Helping women get to the altar faster since 2010.
Strict But SUccessful Dating advice
Apologies for the inconvenience. Due to the high demand for my services, I stopped taking new clients on August 1, 2018.
My audios are available for purchase. If you would like to work with me, please familiarize yourself with my material before booking a consultation. The audio lectures are foundational to your transformation sessions and helping you become an amazing success story.
Long-term clients can book by PayPal (click "Call Kim" below). After payment, please use "YouCanBookMe" to get on my calendar.
The Strict But Successful Coach
the Rules Book
These 35 controversial yet effective rules helped millions of women marry Mr. Right.
The Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
Whether you're 16 or 60, this book will help you date with dignity, standards and self-esteem to marry the man of your dreams.
The Rules is the #1 authoritative book that have helped millions of women worldwide marry their Mr. Right.
Based on tried, trusted, true methods that work!
Certified by Authors of The Rules
"Kim lives and breathes The Rules! She got married by doing The Rules and wants to help women find the same relationship happiness with her no-nonsense advice and passion for the truth! Book a consultation with Kim today and change your love life for the better!" -Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider
Clients from all over the world share their proposal stories. This could be you!
35, Elementary Teacher, Texas
When I was with my boyfriend in New Mexico visiting his family, he proposed! We had gone on a sunset hike with a picnic and we were listening to the radio. By chance, the song "Marry Me", by Train came on and he felt it was the right moment. I was completely surprised! He didn't tell anyone except my stepdad (asking for his blessing) and a friend/work colleague who helped him with the ring. He wanted to do something unique and special so he got the ring from an antique jewelry auction. It had belonged to a couple married for 65 years! It's so romantic and absolutely gorgeous. Finding The Rules has really changed my life and I can't thank you enough for all your advice, wisdom, and support. I would like to continue learning The Rules lifestyle and consulting with you about rules for being engaged, married, etc... I am glad you will still be consulting while traveling. I look forward to following your travels online. I'm so very happy and excited!! Thank you!
28, Advertising Project Manager, New York
He popped the question last night on our surprise destination trip to beautiful Bermuda! I am so happy - we had the most incredible weekend celebrating. He made me feel like a princess 10x over!
He proposed on the first night of the trip. We were about to head out to a nice dinner on the Island, but I came out from getting ready, and he said, "You look so gorgeous. Come out on the balcony and see this beautiful full moon." [Our hotel room had a gorgeous balcony with views of the ocean, and the moon was literally right next to us - it was insanely pretty!] Then, he said "I love you so much, and you make me so happy, will you marry me?" and got down on one knee! I was so surprised, it took me a few seconds to process. I said, Oh my god...then said Yes! He originally wanted to propose at dinner, but when he saw how beautiful the setting was outside, he thought it was the perfect moment. The dinner afterward was kind of a blur of excitement, but we had the most incredible day after celebrating - we went to the beach, got couples massages and had an incredible, romantic dinner, and champagne in the room! It didn't even feel real until I got home and saw my family and caught up with my best friends. He couldn't have planned a more wonderful weekend for us.
Now, we're trying to pin down a date for Summer or Fall! Thanks for all of your help and support over the past few months. You're the best!
Hot Air Balloon Proposal
Body Therapist, Sao Paolo, Brazil
Dear Kim, Thank you for your support and for helping me get here! I am quite surprised with the unfolding. We dated less than a year and a half. He talked about an engagement by the 8th month.
Even though I didn’t do The Rules perfectly, it was still a Rules-y relationship. The Rules work! Yesterday he proposed during a hot air balloon ride!
I am a big fan and loyal and very attentive reader of Kim’s blogs, paying attention to her every hidden tip! I learned a lot from what Kim explains as “counter-intuitive” and getting into man’s head. That taught me how to pick my battles because this relationship was my very first Rulesy one!
I didn’t get much practice to stick to everything but I had enough will to try my best because I just knew he was the one for me.
Two Rings in Two Weeks Proposal
34, Behavioral Consultant, South Dakota
Hello Kim! I just wanted to share some wonderful news with you… I am recently engaged with a wedding date planned for the near future! I thank you so much for your guidance and advice over the past year. Without God and you, I would not have become the woman I needed to be for my soon to be husband. Thank you so much for teaching me the fine art of blending The Rules with the Secrets of the Modern Geisha. Most definitely life-changing for this woman! Your advice helped me tremendously all along the way.
My fiancé is the alpha male I last consulted with you on in October. He proposed two weeks ago with a ring that he chose, but then took me shopping the next day to let me choose another ring… So I received two diamond rings in the course of one week. He has thanked me for being feminine and allowing him to feel like a man. He has said that most women come across so masculine and hardened that he had given up on finding a woman he wanted to marry… Until I came along. I have to admit that I used to be one of those kinds of women until I started learning from you and studying the art of femininity. So thank you again for helping me learn what men are looking for in women.
Bed & Breakfast Proposal
26, ESL Teacher, Missouri
Hello Kim, I just wanted to let you know and thank you because this weekend my boyfriend took me on a surprise weekend getaway to a place I’ve always wanted to go and proposed!! So, thank you for all of your advice, it has helped me immensely! He told me that he wanted to take me to Chicago to spend some alone time with me. On our drive there, he surprised me and told me that we were going to this place I’ve always wanted to go, that we were staying in this lovely bed and breakfast on a lake and that it would be even better because it was the first day of fall, and fall is my favorite season!
The next morning he told me that he wanted to take me to the beach and see this lighthouse, as I also love lighthouses. So, we did and as we walked down the pier, he got so serious and I thought, what’s going on? Why is he being so weird! Then he got down on one knee and proposed! It was all so surreal! And for the rest of the weekend, we had a wonderful time sharing with everyone what just happened and visited beautiful wineries, chocolate stores, and antiquing! It was wonderful! We even were featured on our bed and breakfast’s Facebook page!
What Clients Are Saying...
I thought I knew The Rules
Hello Kim, Thank you for your prescription! I thought I knew The Rules by heart. I’ve even had consults by other coaches, but Kim is the coach for me! Her understanding and guidance helped revive my relationship overnight! Even with all these years of rules practice under my belt, Kim has doubled my understanding of the successful man/woman love dynamic and my confidence within my relationship. I feel so lucky I found her. I’m excited for my next consult with her so my relationship can go even deeper for us both! Thank you, Kim for the wonderful 'prescription' and advice and guidance!"
Kim is the TOTAL package and is even beyond
"I was not interested in the variety of good, great, or even more popular relationship coaches. There are many who fit that description. Instead, I wanted to be led ABOVE that realm (as I do not have time or money to waste), I wanted to be led by a coach who is expertized and gifted in the area of relationships. I wanted someone who not only is masterful in passing on ways of being but who also exhibits that in their own life.
Kim is the TOTAL package and is even beyond what I had hoped for in an exceptional coach! And even her own very loving, fun and vibrant marriage are a testament to how she is indeed a CUAO. And a relationship coach unlike any other as well. I’m so glad I made and will continue to make this worthy investment. Going the cheap route just isn’t successful (i.e. reading tons of magazines, talking to girlfriends who are well-meaning but are not experts, reading relationship books), nor is wasting money successful (i.e. ongoing therapy, counseling, costly seminars)–but making an investment that has led to my BLISSFUL RESULTS! (By working with Kim) has been PRICELESS!"
A 'Lifeline' is my description of Kim Evazians
"My first consult was at the beginning of June 2012. I had not heard about Kim but stumbled across her name one night while internet browsing. Since then I’ve had Modern Geisha lessons, private consultation and have interacted with other members in her secret support group. I find Kim and her work highly empowering and inspiring! This lady is unique, a virtuoso in the Eastern philosophy. There is something ‘maddeningly addicting’ which keeps me coming back to her for coaching and advice.
A 'Lifeline' is my description of Kim Evazians. Thank you for being so committed and available to your clients, Kim. I only have to click the button and book a consultation or a lesson and it’s arranged. You are very willing to share and teach YOUR SECRETS of the ‘uncommon woman.' That 'Aha' moment comes to me fairly often because of your coaching sessions with me... How to just 'be,' it sounds so easy, but one has to know HOW to just be to initiate this way of being... Thank you, Kim for showing me how!"
Helped me turn my marriage around
"I am married and had done The Rules prior to our marriage. I had worked with other Rules coaches before, but Kim seems to be one coach who really “gets” it! With her knowledge of the rules and her really understanding men, she has helped me turn my marriage around! I had been going through some really tough times prior to calling her and the “D” word was even mentioned by my husband.
After one call and about one week of doing The Rules in my marriage, I saw changes! I am sold enough on her coaching that I WILL call her again and get the coaching I need, as I need it! My marriage is worth it and I believe in her and the advice she has given me! The proof is the changes I saw in my marriage just after one calling session with her! She is wonderful! Thanks, Kim!"
She took the philosophy to a much deeper level
Kim is a unique, inspiring individual who has a wealth of wisdom and expertise to offer. Having listened to some of her amazing audio lectures, I was so impressed with her approach that I made the decision to book a few consults with her. I found her to be incredibly thorough, committed to her clients' success and overall, the quality of service she provides is excellent.
Even though I had practiced the Rules for many years and read a lot of related literature, she took the philosophy to a much deeper level. Her coaching was very empowering, giving me greater insights into relationships with simple, practical steps to follow. Thank you for all your guidance, I look forward to working with you again in the future!
Small price to pay for something that can go a long way
"Kim’s tools are simple and easy to use. Her teachings take The Rules to a different level. She helps with all relationships in general. So that you live a holistic life, men will find you charming. But then again people around you will find you charming as well. Isn’t that wonderful? It’s a small price to pay for something that can go a long way. Do less for more! I had two dates in one day… Whoa! She helps us believe in love again, if it can happen to me, it can happen to you!"
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